– Read your SMS messages?
– Monitor your online activity and access private sites like Facebook and email?
– Discourage you from spending time with certain friends and family?
– Take or manage your income?
– Scrutinise your spending?
– Make frequent and unfounded threats to break up?
– Humiliate, manipulate and intimidate you?
– Make threats to, or actually, self harm?
– Pressure, manipulate, trick, force or blackmail you into sexual acts?